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So you think you want to become a Gorean slave? You think you have
what it takes? Many think they can be a kajira, but in reality,
they don't have a clue. Gor is hard, unfair, demeaning, and goes
against what we, as human females, were brought up to believe.
Then again, Gor can be wonderful. It can bring a sense of freedom to
a kajira, let her very soul take flight with exquisite pleasure.
It can seep into your soul, without you even knowing it.
If you are here so that some big, strong MAN can overwhelm you and
give you the cyber-sex you've always dreamed of, you're in the
wrong place. There are thousands of BDSM and "pick-up" rooms for
that.
There is a lot to learn about being kajira (Gorean slave), and only
the truly serious will take the time to learn it well. It's not
something you will learn overnight and in reality, a good kajira
will continue to learn all the time.
First off, the mindset of a kajira is critical. A girl must want to
serve others with all her heart, not just serve one person, and
not just serve sexually. A kajira must achieve total effacement
of self, an abnegation of one's own desires, and the
turning-outward of one's energies toward others.
A kajira, secondly, shows herself and her beauty off in everything she
does. You will utilize every action, from entering a channel to
approaching a Master, to bring pleasure to the Free with your
unique loveliness and style.
On the other hand, Gor is about the Free, not the slaves - how long
can you sit in a channel, unnoticed, not called upon, without
fidgeting, without adding a little comment here and there to get
yourself noticed? Which is not to say that kajirae should not
enter into conversations; but they do need the self-control to be
still when the time is appropriate. As Will Rogers put it,
Never miss a good chance to shut up.
Then there is Gorean factual knowledge, gleaned from the Scrolls,
John Norman's 26 books of the Chronicles of Counter Earth. From
animals to foods, from drinks to positions, each bit is important
knowledge for an on-line kajira. Granted, as a kajira you might never be asked about
what kinds of flowers are in Gor, but if you are, you'll be able
to answer with a correct answer.
Being a kajira is not to be taken lightly. It takes a lot of hard
work, and determination. As a kajira, you need to have a deep
craving and inner desire to serve. As Gorean slaves we wish to be
perfect, but you need to understand that no matter how hard you
try to please the all Free, you'll never be able to.
Be yourself when in Gor; embellishment of one's image is normal, but
complete falsification of who you are as a person only leads to
hurt and anger. There will be times (because yes, we are human,
even if in Gorean law we are considered livestock) that in your mind you'll want to
lash out and blurt out words that as time goes on, will surely
come to mind. But if you really want to be a kajira, you won't say them. You'll
bite back the rudeness, the feeling of "how dare they say this or
that". Many kajira say they have black and blue tongues, but they
learn what to speak about, and what not to speak about.
The Free will often encourage you to speak openly, but acting the brat is only
going to get your ass kicked right out of the door. And it will
gain little, if any, help from the girls who've been just where
you are now, alone, scared and wondering what they got themselves
into.
The biggest thing to remember though is, you are on Gor to have fun, to grow,
and to enjoy yourself and others. There will be changes within you as you
let your inner slave-self fly free, as you fulfil yourself as a woman in this
unique, supra-womanly way. Note, however: if it ever stops being fun, that's when to
turn off the computer, and take a long hard look at where you are.
Slavegirl of Gor,
11:134-5 |
As I turned, hurrying, suddenly, frightening me, I realized the
Ta-Teera had scarcely concealed me. This frightened me for I had
become much aware, in the last few weeks, of the capacity of my
beauty to excite men. Eta had told me that I was becoming more
beautiful. I did not see how this could be. Yet, apparently, for
no reason I clearly understood, I was becoming more provocative
and stimulating to men. I suspect this. had to do with the
gradual loss of layers of constriction and inhibition in my
movements and attitudes, and expressions, the sluffing off of
modes of impersonality and rigidity in which I had been
conditioned since girlhood on Earth.
I now related to men in a
much more spontaneous and intensely personal way than once I
would have dreamed possible. I now saw them as unique, exciting
masters, each different and incredibly individual, who might, for
a word or gesture, have me; how could I not regard them
differently from a free woman; and, too, doubtless, they saw me
in a similarly immediate and intensely personal fashion, not as
an object shielded, by prejudice and law, and fear and pride,
from them, even to touch whom could be a crime, but rather as a
slave girl, vulnerable, exposed, at their mercy, unique in her
exact helplessness and individuality, the same in some respects
as all other bond girls and yet interestingly and profoundly
different, too, from all the others.
I shared the condition of
slavery with other bond wenches, but each of us, of course, as
masters know, in the depths and complexity of us, is a
surprisingly and uniquely different individual, a latent prize
for the chain, an astonishment fascinating to learn and subdue. I
suspect the changes in me, at least in part, had to do with two
things, the gradual stripping from me of negativistic Earth
conditionings and, on the positive side, the Gorean
acculturations to which I, a bond girl, was being exposed. I was
learning my slavery. Oddly enough, in learning my slavery, I was
experiencing an incredible sense of psychological freedom and
liberation. I was liberated from political and economic roles of
male impersonation and freed to be myself, a woman.
The major
difference in me, perhaps, however, was not behavioral, social or
cultural, but biological. The cultural arrangements, as such
arrangements should or may, liberated rather suppressed,
constricted or thwarted my inner nature. My inner nature, thus,
was permitted to open its petals to the rain and sunlight of a
clean, honest, glorious world. I was becoming true to myself. I
think that is it. In becoming true to myself, too, I was becoming
happy. And, as Eta once told me, it is hard for a woman to be
happy and not to be beautiful.
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Finding your way here was the first step, but probably the most
important one you'll ever have to face again.
The first lesson. Engrave this upon your heart, you who would be a kajira, and know this cold: because
nothing you ever learn, no training you ever receive is more important.
A kajira has but three duties, in this order of priority; and she lives to perform them.
- A kajira is pleasing, to her Master or Owner first, then to He whom she serves
- A kajira is obedient, following her Master's or Owner's commands in their spirit, to the letter
- A kajira is pretty, in her Master's or Owner's eyes
The second lesson, more important than anything else, save the Duties.
- A kajirae is loyal to her heart, not her collar, not a Home Stone.
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Ten difficult things about becoming a kajira (no particular order):
- Making sure the Free Person you choose to be your "Guide" or "Mentor" is going to stay on Gor, and going to remain Free
- Just because you know a few serves, and can spell "heat", and alcove well, does NOT mean you're a kajira
- Learning to put your self second, and when you don't agree with the Free person, letting go of the irritation
- Having patience, no matter how dense that Free Person or that other kajira is
- Not taking the first collar that is dangled in your face.
- Knowing that your Master may take more than one slave, and it is not your place to comment
- Knowing it is ok to make a mistake, then learning from it and moving on "Remember: your mistakes are the only things you can truly call your own."
- No matter what you do, there is just no pleasing some.
- Never assume you know what a Free Person wants... they'll tell you
- Smiling all the time, especially when faced with a displeasing, annoying, or downright belligerent Free Person
Ten nice things about becoming a kajira (no particular order):
- You can find real Men here, Men who don't compromise, waffle, or are wimps that you can walk all over
- You might find your belly, that point within you that burns to serve, to please, to bring pleasure
- You will learn that it really counts to please men. If this is too "sexist" for you or otherwise offensive, then Gor is not for you.
- You have your Master looking out for your every need; your Master will handle all the bullshit that anyone gives you (Kit`ala)
- Total freedom to be able to enjoy and feel and be pleasured.. including multiple, all-body orgasms (feiqua{KK})
- The looks from Men in malls and other public places -- a kajira has an aura, even IRL (In Real Life), that she is for pleasure... Males can sense this, even subsonsciously (feiqua{KK})
- You can make real what is deep within your heart, what you have known all of your life, but was never quite sure it was acceptable (charlyn{KK})
- It's okay to be very feminine and not have to try to match the men... it's okay to be me (`shayna)
- When a girl is ready to know true happiness, it will find her
- You become a kajira.. that most beautiful, most alluring essence of femininity, proud in your completeness, modest in your slavery, knowing you have achieved the totality of what other girls dream about and envy, timid and afraid, from afar
-- brandy,
with a little help from
Oryx con Lara, Lady Viviane, pyxi{OcL}, and others as noted
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